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More About Fr. Pishoy Kamel
A
spiritually attuned educationalist said: "Whenever
God wills to perform something new, He sends a new born
baby into the world, and when this baby ripens, God sends
a sign: for He always works through signs."
Accordingly, on the sixth of December 1931, and in the
town of Damanhour, God sent a baby into the world. His
two parents from Menoufia were God fearing in word and
deed. They called him Sami (ie. Lofty). Time proved how
very appropriate their choice was; rather was it a divine
inspiration. Moreover, it harmonised with his father’s
name Kamel (ie. Perfect). And when, in due season, he
was consecrated Priest, he was given the name Pishoy,
the Coptic synonym for Sami.
As for the sign, it was given in a most unexpected manner.
The Patriarchate had bought in the year 1957 a piece of
land near the tram way at ‘Sporting Station’,
hoping to build a church in the name of St. George.
Then, on the 10th of May 1959, Abba Kyrillos VI was consecrated
the 116th successor to St. mark. Every now and then, He
would go to Alexandria. On Wednesday 18th of November
1959, he sat in his reception room talking with a most
apperceptive priest in Alexandria called Fr. Mina Iskander.
Their talk centred on the ‘St. George Church’.
The clairvoyant Pope said: "We can not begin to build
the church before consecrating a priest for it".
He had hardly ended his phrase, then Sami Kamel entered
with his Sunday school class to receive his blessing.
Fr. Mina Iskander exclaimed. Here is the youth who can
be spiritual father to St. George’s people. After
a few questions, Abba Kyrillos put the cross on Sami’s
head saying: "It is a God given sign that you will
become priest and I shall ordain you this coming Sunday!".
Sami took a long breath and said: "But I am not yet
married, Holy Father." "The Spirit of God who
inspired me to this decision, will elect for you the bride
who will be most suitable for you in your ministry".
Thus it came to pass that Sami Kamel was led by God’s
spirit to ask for the hand of Angele Bassili, a sister
of a very dear friend (Colleague). Their wedding was celebrated
on Tuesday 24th of November and he was consecrated on
Wednesday the 2nd of December. Angele proved to be the
very girl fit for the life-partner of Fr. Pishoy –
Just as Abba Kyrillos VI foretold.
1. The secret
of Father Pishoy’s success was "His Faith in
his mission".
Since his early years, he believed that it was impossible
for him to live for a goal other than seeking the souls
distant from the Lord and leading them to a life union
with God in Jesus Christ. After his ordination as a priest,
he never deviated from the mission in which he believed.
His pastoral work was increased in depth and power, day
by day and moment by moment, even in the bitterest pain
– to his last breath. His farewell message to us
was service. Our beloved father was not a passive man
but a continuos worker.
Yet he believed in God’s providence that whenever
an idea exists for the sake of Christ there is no need
for financial planning. His carefree attitude towards
the material made it present itself under his feet. God’s
blessing filled his life that not only one church was
built but many others, St. George in El Hadara, Archangel
Michael in Moustafa Kamel, St. Takla Himanote in El Ibrahimia,
St. Mary and Pope Kyrellos the great in Cleopatra, and
St. Peter in Sidi-Bishr.
His faith in God’s work and his love to spread the
kingdom of heaven was wonderful. He surrounded the church
with new churches from every direction. Consequently,
the population of the Coptic congregation in his church
grew less than the surrounding new churches. He was quite
happy with the results of his service, for he did not
believe in appearances or numbers but longed for the salvation
of every person.
2. Father Pishoy believed in the power of the cross.
He pushed his confessors to contemplate in the scars of
the crucified to draw from Him the power of love and receive
God’s work in their lives. In his passionate love
to the cross he wrote two books, "At the foot of
the cross" and "With Christ I was crucified".
He put above his bed a picture of the crucified Jesus
Christ with St. Mary Magdalene kneeling at His feet. He
said, Mary chose the best place ever found.
Father Pishoy’s sayings about the cross include:
• The more we contemplate
in the cross, the more our unity and knowledge become
deeper with the Lord Jesus Christ.
• The Christian can not say that he knows Christ
unless he has a sacred unity and continuos contemplations
with Christ’s cross. So let us start a ten-minute
daily exercise to contemplate in Him who was crucified
for us.
• Carrying the cross is a daily invitation. The
cross, Oh Lord, was inside Your heart since the very
beginning, before You carried it on Your back. The cross
represents Your love and sacrifice.
• The best scene that satisfies my eyes is to
see You carrying the cross, for it is the satisfaction
of my cross.
• The cross is the sign of the Son of Man and
the sign of the children of God.
The
secret of the power in his worship and pastoral life was
his pre occupation with the cross and his desire for everyone
to share and enjoy with him the blessings of the cross.
Finally God wanted to honour him with the gift of cancer.
In order for him to enter into the joyful unity of suffering
in Christ’s cross, God crowned his life with the
gift of pain.
Many people found comfort in their sickness or troubles
by merely seeing our father in pain or hearing about his
patience and joy. St Augustine said: "A joyful priest
on his bed of sickness for thirty years is a far better
service than preaching".
God wanted to honour our father, he passed away on the
third day of the glorified feast of the cross.
1. His concern for his eternity:
Father Pishoy’s love to serve and preach did not
take him from his concealed life with God and his concern
regarding his eternity. He believed that service can not
be successful without a sacred life. Unless man is open
to all with love and serves others, he can not enjoy God’s
blessings. Thus our father did not separate his personal
life from his service, each one depended on and supported
the others. One of the most beautiful virtues of our beloved
father was that in spite of his great experience in the
spiritual life and in serving, he rarely talked about
himself or his personal experiences. He wanted to hide
himself behind the image of Christ. In other words, he
did not want to expose his life to people’s praising
and feared the enemy’s wars of false pride. Father
Pishoy was truly saying with the Apostle "Lest, when
I have preached to others, I myself should become rejected". 2. His Spiritual Fatherhood:
Father Pishoy deceased on March 21st 1979 – Mother’s
day or the family day in Egypt. This was not by chance.
He was known for his true spirit of fatherhood in Jesus
Christ. You might say that he declared the motherhood
of the church through which man discovers God’s
fatherhood.
St. Cyprian said: "No one can take God as his father
unless he takes the church as his mother".
Our Beloved father was known for his thoughtful deeds
under all circumstances. His deeds were not superficial
in nature, but presented true fatherly sharing in Jesus
Christ. Father Pishoy made each person feel special. 3. His Law of Love:
Besides our father’s superior ability for administration
and management, his core belief was love. He loved God
from all his heart and reflected this in his love for
his congregation, his fellow priests and the Pope Kyrellos.
He also loved non-Christians. His heart was a flame of
love. Father Pishoy wanted to give his life to others
in the name of Jesus Christ.
4. A man of Prayer:
Father Pishoy believed that the pastoral work is the work
of the greatest shepherd, ie. Our Lord Jesus Christ, who
is able to satisfy the multitude and open the inner eyes
and attract the hearts to heaven.
In his speech about pastoral work, Father Pishoy said,
"The priest – Presbyter – is a mediator.
His main work is to pray for his people and to offer the
liturgy sacrifice for their own sake.
As Samuel the prophet said, "I can not sin against
God and stop praying". Prayer is the servant’s
power in every aspect of the service. The divine liturgy
reveals to us this secret. The priest prays for himself
and for his people saying: "For the sake of the sick,
the travellers, the departed, the president, as well as
for the Pope.
Another issue is the servant’s responsibility to
teach his people the life of prayer. If he fails to do
so, he has taught them nothing.
5. A church man:
Our beloved father lived as a churchman. He loved the
church as God’s bride and was aware of his membership
in it. He accepted Jesus through it and preached in the
name of Christ.
In his speech with the students of the faculty of theology
in Alexandria, he said, "The shepherd ties his sheep
in the sheepfold", ie. the church through its feasts,
the life of its saints, its history, fasting, worships
and readings through different occasions. The church is
the sheepfold in which the sinners enter and are saved
and find pasture.
6. His meekness:
Our father Pishoy earned a great reputation among the
Copts inside and outside Egypt. Also, many non-Christians
loved him. It is hard to find a Coptic person who never
heard of him or praised him, yet God granted him a humble
and meek soul. He once said, "Our people are so simple,
they are happy with little things. I have no idea why
they praise me this much. He always felt guilty about
his shortcomings in his service to others. 7. His love for learning:
In Father Pishoy’s funeral, his Holiness pope Shenouda
III talked about him and his foundation of a new spiritual
school in Alexandria, which affected the Copts inside
as well as outside Egypt.
The Pope of Alexandria, along with many others, witnessed
this teacher’s love for learning. He was always
learning at the school of prayer from the Holy Bible and
other spiritual books. He was like an active bee collecting
the nectar from each flower. He picked what was food for
his growth, not only from bishops or priests but also
from laymen and sometimes even from non-Christians, without
loosing his dignity and his position as a teacher and
a leader. 8. His Kindness with sinners:
St. Ambrose wrote: "Jesus was kind with us so as
not to scare us but to draw us to Him. He came in kindness
and meekness and said, Come unto me, all you that labour
and are heavy laden and I will give you rest. (Matthew
11: 28)".
Thus He invited us to himself and did not shut us out.
In choosing His disciples, Jesus chose those who manifest
His will, gather God’s people, not scatter them.
Those who are hard-headed, show no kindness or meekness,
or ask for the mercy of God for themselves and not for
others, can not be considered God’s disciples.
Our beloved father fulfilled God’s will by being
meek and kind with everybody. He always gave hope in the
blood of Jesus Christ. He always assured us of our adoption
by God.
9. His discipleship
and ability for teaching:
Fr. Pishoy was truly a preacher who witnessed for Jesus
Christ in his sermons and private meetings, in his silence
and his talk, in his firmness and his kindness and in
his smile. He was talking about salvation for all. He
put his heart to consecrate every bit of his life for
being a true witness of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Our father was a flexible man in his pastoral work. He
knew how to deal with the rich and the poor. He dealt
with the seniors in wisdom and played with the children
tenderly. The married felt comfortable with him and the
virgin turned to him for advice. When he talked, the hearer’s
heart leapt in hearing God’s word of blessing. When
he was silent, one felt a special kind of blessing. He
was famous for his smiling face and his high spirit but
he never knew sarcasm – not in his sermons nor in
his private meetings.